Lol, “whatever” back within ya, Christine
To begin with, I'm in reality hitched to an emotional retard – my husband is afflicted with Borderline Identification Infection, that is kinda the very concept of psychological retardation; and you may second, while hitched so you're able to a difficult retard, it’s A lot more discipline and you can connection that is needed, believe it or not.
W was in fact married to possess 30 years whenever out of the blue she claims “I've zero attitude to you personally, I do not like you and I'd like a splitting up
I'm very sorry that you're married in order to a passive-competitive, emotionally retarded prick, however, I question there is certainly so much you can certainly do so you can change the way he could be – simply they can do that, and just in the event the he could be happy. Your sound quite bad regarding the factors, therefore I'm speculating he's not ready, and therefore actually leaves you in just you to solution, most, which will be to focus on you, therefore the part you gamble in your impaired ic. That is the merely matter that is on your own capacity to change.
Otherwise, you can always simply bitch and grumble about your retard from a spouse...how's one workin' aside to possess ya?